When a man hurts you, mentally, physically, or emotionally, he does not deserve you. He is telling you that your beauty was made for him and that he has control over it and you. No man has that power. Our beauty was made by God to shine in this bleak and broken world. We have purpose through Him and we were created to fulfill that purpose through the strength and inspiration that He has given us. We are made perfect through Him. Don’t seek out approval when you have already been approved by He who loves everything about you. Don’t give your worth away. Don’t ever lower your standards for someone who makes you feel less than who you really are. Don’t let the fear of being alone keep you from letting go of someone who you know isn’t right for you. Don’t let the fear of being alone influence who you give your heart to. Don’t give it to just anyone because it should be guarded. Give your heart to Christ and let Him transform it. Let Him mold it into one that resembles His. He will keep it safe. Let Him mold you into the woman you were created to be. Keep your expectations high. Don’t search or pursue love. Let it find you. It will be that much more rewarding when it happens. Don’t force yourself to love someone - let it develop at its own rate. Love should wait for its proper time. Find yourself in Christ first. Seek first the Kingdom.
When I try to look ahead, I always end up speeding up and speeding up. Faster and faster. Within 2 minutes of thinking, I’m already at death. And that’s when I get scared. Death. You’re never going to have another chance at life. You’ll just be dead. Dead. Gone. Forever. Scary isn’t it?
so my list is like:
-next year I’ll be a freshman
-4 more years and I’ll go to college
-I’ll be able to drive and get a job
-hopefully get married
It’s very scary. I then begin to think about dieing, and I really want a hug. But I’m supposedly sleeping so I don’t want to get up in the middle of the night and talk to my mom about dieing.
Maybe it’s just me, but I’m terrified of death ):
Nice goals. Except for the last one.
You shouldn’t even be thinking about this right now. It’s too much for you to think about all of this all at one time. If you have to think about death, I’d rather much prefer you think about it little by little. It’s what I did. And now I’ve come to accept the fact that one day I’m going to die, and the people I know are going to die, and the dog that I’ll never have is going to die. But right now, you’re not dying, and I’m not dying, so let’s just leave it at that.
But seriously, don’t think about it. You should be concentrating on your homework, young woman. >:]
Girls like a guy who can stand up for himself, because if he can’t, how can she be so sure that you can take care of her, also?
We love reassurance and comfort.. and most of the time, it’s quite often. That’s never going to change.
Most of the time, we’d be okay that you are with your boys, just remember not to say anything when we are with ours.
We are over protective if you give us a reason to be.
Treat us the way you want to be treated, which means.. no bs about the boy we were talking to or just a simple male friend we are hanging out with.
If you’re gonna trip about other boys, we are most definitely gonna trip about other girls. Another given. Because two can play that game.
Girls like to be held, and kisses on the forehead are so much cuter than a massive make out session in public.
White crewneck and dark denims = turn on. The absolute simplest way to dress, but also the sexiest.
Whoever told you that a girl’s gonna cost you your bank account is wrong. Money doesn’t buy love. A perfect gentlemen pays for all expenses, but the world is made up of flaws, so it’s okay. Take turn paying, and if she insists that you pay all the time? Leave. (Okay, maybe not, but do something about it.)
Girls do spoil their guy, if the same is given in return. Homemade gifts are often THE cutest. Random visits and gifts mean more than when you are “supposed to do it (Valentine’s day, Christmas, etc.)
Girls need their girls, just like you need your boys for.. whatever your reason may be. That is the absolute worst reason to get jealous over, she’s not going to turn lesbian.
When she askes you for a favor, try to do it. She’ll get frustrated and you’ll end up in an agrument.
Simple things like texts or a cute IM is nice, just don’t smother her.
Ex-girlfriends and the past bring up a horrible subject. And although you and your ex might still be friends, make sure that your girl nows that she means nothing, that reassurance will never stop, never.
And most importantly, stay consistent. Girls go absolutely crazy when you were sweet the first few months and.. soon, it fades away. Keep chasing, and when you feel like you want to stop, let her know - don’t just leave her, don’t just let her go.
9848.) The only reason I read so much is because it gives me an escape from my life. I'd give anything to have a life that was like the characters in my novels. I want to find love, I want to make something of my life. But I don't think I can, so I settle for living vicariously through fictional characters.
Today passed by really slowly. I don’t know why. Shouldn’t your first day of school pass by really fast? And it was only 5 hours, too, a minimum day. I don’t know how I’m going to survive the rest of the school year. Irvington’s too big for me. I nearly got lost in there. Thank goodness I had Garrick to follow around in my first three classes.
Spanish 3 is going to be horrible this year. I don’t know anybody in there, and me and this other girl are the only freshmen. AND there’s too much Spanish spoken in there. @___@
So, homework on the first day of school… blehh. Horrible. Well, guess I’ll start on it now. -.-